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Sometimes................. A letter from your therapist.

Sometimes, I wonder how you even made it through my door (after all that you’ve been through). Sometimes, I marvel at how you carry all...

When the memories hit. . . . . . . . . .

Last weekend I went swimming to a local leisure centre.  As I walked towards the pool area, I felt a visceral memory surge. I immediately...

A little thing I just had to say. . . . . . . . . .

This week, I watched our Prime Minister offer a speech on reforming welfare.  Whilst I am a therapist, not a politician, in essence, the...

How do you know what you need?

“What do you need?” “Errrr, sorry?” “What do you need?” “Uh, I don’t know.”  “Haven’t a clue.” The above is commonplace, particularly in...

Expectations. . . . . . . . . .

What’s expected of you?  Is it to be brave?  Beautiful?  Clever?  Quiet?  Hard working?  Composed?  Strong?  Handsome?  Level-headed? ...

What if I'm the only one who. . . . . . . . . .

I have a visceral memory of being at primary school.  I was seven years old.  It was music class (my favourite) and the teacher was...

When old patterns re-emerge. Yes, even for therapists.....

Last weekend, I sat down to experiment (have a play) with watercolour paints.  Although I’d never describe myself as ‘an artist’, I have...

Sometimes, things are just hard. . . . . . . . .

In life, sometimes, things can be really, reeeaaalllyyy hard.  They just can.  Things like (but not limited to): ·       Times ·      ...

Minds and heads and hearts, oh my....................

I’m sure I’m not the only one who has seen the quotes, the memes, the messages that go a little like: ‘Never let your heart rule your...

Let's talk about change. . . . . . . . . .

Change. Transitions. Alterations. Movement. We’ve all heard these words and might associate them with multiple different meanings. ...

Therapists are there to 'fix you', aren't they???

You know the scene……………. Someone (the therapist) is sitting in a chair, dressed smartly, with a pen and a notebook, furiously scribbling...

Summertime fun (ish).................

But it’s summertime. I’m supposed to be carefree and having fun, right? We’ve seen the pictures……… Folk cavorting in the sunshine, happy,...

My family member/friend is struggling. What can I do?

I wanted to write this blog today, as I often hear from people who know that others close to them are struggling or having a hard time....

In these troubled times.........................

It feels as though our world and life as we know/knew it has been turned on its head, particularly over the last few years. A global...

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